What does 'working with your vibration' mean? It means working with your own energy. It matters what you think. If you think negative thoughts, you bring that same negative level back to your life. There is no way around that. What you think and what you get are the same. So it behooves us to pay attention to what we do think. We can't fool the universe, as it is vibrational. You create a vibration with your thoughts and feelings. You can say good-sounding words, but if they aren't the same vibration that you are actually feeling, they are meaningless.